Monday 19 August 2013

New Zealand holds its first same sex weddings

Dozens of same-sex couples said "I do" on Monday as New Zealand became the first Asia-Pacific country, and only the 14th in the world, to legalise gay marriage.

Vows were exchanged in venues ranging from an airliner cruising at 30,000 feet to a historic bath house as gay men and women took advantage of the law change.
The Campaign For Marriage Equality said it ended an historical injustice and meant the love of all people was recognised as equal in the eyes of the law.
"A massive congratulations to the happy couples tying the knot today. Marriage equality has finally arrived in New Zealand," spokesman Conrad Reyners said.
The amendment to the Marriage Act was passed by parliament in April but did not come into effect until Monday.
Two radio stations competed to host the first same-sex wedding, with the ceremonies broadcast live during their breakfast programmes.

In reality, the nuptials took place around the same time, at 8.30am Monday (2030 GMT Sunday), after the government offices that issue marriage licences had opened.
Reverend Matt Tittle from Auckland's Unitarian Church married one of the couples, Tash Vitali, 37, and Mel Ray, 29.
"It's history in the making," he said. "Hopefully it will help other countries to do the same and help New Zealanders to realise that everyone has worth and dignity no matter who they love."
Air New Zealand staged a special flight from Auckland to Queenstown where Lynley Bendall and Ally Wanikau tied the knot in the air after 14 years together, with American actor Jesse Tyler Ferguson from the hit comedy "Modern Family" in attendance.
"To be married at 30,000 feet beneath strings of fairy lights with our children, friends and family as witnesses makes an already memorable day that much more special," Bendall said.
"It was surreal to have Jesse play a part in the ceremony too."
However, conservative lobby group Family First said changing the Marriage Act was "an arrogant act of cultural vandalism" that politicians had pushed through without a public mandate.
"Social engineers including politicians and activists are expecting marriage supporters to drop their deeply held convictions because of the misguided decisions of politicians," national director Bob McCoskrie said.
The Anglican Church has also asked its ministers to refrain from conducting same-sex weddings pending a report to its general synod next year.
New Zealand decriminalised homosexuality in 1986 and has allowed same-sex civil unions since 2005. 






Mikel Obi’s first love revealed


Plans to do collabo with younger brother.


 Nigerian International and Chelsea FC midfielder, John Mikel Obi is now making waves today in his chosen career-football, he probably would have pitched his tent in the music industry.
This stunning revelation was made recently by his younger brother, Patrick Tochukwu Obi, while officially unveiling the six artistes who are signed to the soccer star’s records label, Matured Money Minds(MMM) which he established last year.

Patrick, popularly known as Edgar and a fast rising act, disclosed further that, Mikel’s undying love for music informed his decision to invest in the entertainment industry.
John Obi Mikel

According to Edgar, also an ex-footballer and former playmaker for Pepsi Academy in Jos El-kanani , “If Mikel wasn’t a footballer, he would probably have taken the same path in life with me.”
He hinted that the soccer star is planning to do a collabo with him.”Actually, I was with him a couple of weeks ago and told me concerning his plans to do collabo with me. Hopefully, you will be seeing that happen soon.

Disclosing further, Edgar said ,Mikel has written a couple of songs, adding, his closeness to Psquare is not unconnected with his passion for music.
Edgar however, plays hip hop and R n B, and was formally based in the UK before he later relocated to the country. Last year, he dropped his single under MMM Records mixtape.
“I have already made up my mind before relocating to Nigeria that I was coming home to do music. While I was playing football, I was at the same time doing my music. I always knew that if it wasn’t going to be football, it must be music. Unfortunately, football didn’t work for me. Once I was above 21 years, I did not see any need to pursue a career in football anymore. That’s why I delved into music,” he narrated.

Continuing, he said, “I have never wanted to be carried by my elder brother. It’s actually very difficult for people to see reasons with me. I don’t believe that somebody should carry me to my destiny. Mikel had no hand in my football, not because he doesn’t love me or he doesn’t have the belief in me but because I wanted to be in control of my destiny.”

On why he prefers to sign on new talents, Edgar who manages Mikel’s record label explained that he believes in discovering talents. Last year, MMM signed on six artistes including Splash, Charass, Kido and Mr Jay who have been working tirelessly with sound engineers and producers to take the industy by storm.
Accordig to the rising act, “the artistes are planning on how to get stronghold in the industry by releasing one or two individual singles into the market.”






I could not sacrifice my wife for Nollywood babes – Victor Osuagwu

*Victor Osuagwu & wife
Nollywood actor, Victor Osuagwu , got married to his longtime lover Roseline 16 years ago. But he only wedded her last year at the bride’s home  town in Choba, Port-Harcourt, amid surprises.

The marriage has produced four children: two boys and two girls. Their fist son will be 15 years come next month. Osuagwu, currently the chairman of the Actors Guild of Nigeria, Lagos chapter describes his wife as a replica of what he wanted in life. He reveals that  trust and understanding have been the stronghold of  his marriage.

The beginning
I met my wife at the later part of 1990. I was an undergraduate at the University of Port-Harcourt. Then, she was a little girl of 17 years who was in her JSS 3. When I met her for the first time,  I told her straight away that I was going to marry her. And that I was not interested in boyfriend or girlfriend relationship. I later allowed her to grow.  But we became close when she gained admission into the UNIPORT. She did a certificate course in theatre arts after which she switched over to a degree programme. Since then, we became good friends. We formalized our marriage in 2002.

Temptation in Nollywood
I saw many things in Nollywood but nothing could have made me not to marry her because she has everything that can attract a man to a woman. So, what’s the need looking around? Moreover, I was serious about my relationship with her. I was not treating her as a girl friend but as a wife. There was no way I could have gone into another relationship I knew I could not consummate into marriage.

Things that destroy marriage
Lack of trust and misunderstanding of each other. These are the two major factors that can destroy a marriage. Again, when the couple allows the third party to mediate in their marriage. Most times, the woman listens to gossips from outside. And if she happens to be the kind of person that they could easily convince,  then, the marriage is bound to crash.

The journey so far
It has been smooth without  hitches. And if you asked me why, I would say because of our long time of courtship. She has been able to understand who I am,  when I am happy or disturbed. We are  like friends, and it has kept us going all these years. She has been able to understand my profession and enterprise. She knows  when I am not able to step out of the house. It is just a matter of trust and understanding that has kept us going.

Attraction!
She is homely. Her homeliness was what attracted me to her. As beautiful as she was at that tender age, she was  staying in the dormitory. But each time she came  home, she did all those things that you could not easily find with young girls of those days. In those days, when you saw girls that were beautiful like her, they usually didn’t do any home work but she was doing the normal home work of fetching water, helping her mother with her chores, and engaged in  farming. I naturally love homely people and I was brought up in that setting. I need somebody who can handle my kind of person. I’m not flamboyant. I have a limit to my social life. The truth is that she is a replica of what I wanted  in my life.
Accepting  your proposal
It wasn’t easy. I told her of my intention to marry her without having to date her,  that I would wait for her to complete her education. The  next day, I saw her and called her but she shunned me.

What kept us  going
Trust and understanding. We have been able to understand and trust each other. Even when I’m not in town, I still believe there is somebody at home that I can trust. She believes her husband is safe wherever he is.
Before you met  her
I had a girlfriend while in the university. I was already a star then, because of the course I was studying. Obviously,  I needed somebody to be part of me. But then, it was on friendly basis because I wasn’t thinking of settling down with her.
My husband chose truck as our bridal car — Wife
The journey so far It has been so great. I’m  very lucky.

Secrets of my success
Love and understanding. When you understand your partner  and he understands you,  with God on your side, things will work out smoothly.
Meeting him
I met him when I was in JSS 3, and he was already in the university. He brought me up like a mother, a sister and a daughter.  We grew up together. I hail from the town where University of Port-Harcourt is situated called Choba.  He graduated  before I did. In fact, while he was graduating from the university I was gaining admission into the same institution.

Marriage proposal
He came to visit one of his friends who was living in our compound then  from the hotel. The moment he sighted  me, he said, ‘this is my wife’. I didn’t believe him then, but later, I realised  he was sincere. I remember, before we finally got married, we used to do things
together.

Regrets
I always say that if I have the opportunity of choosing a husband again, it must  be him. I’m not regretting marrying him.
Wedding surprises
My husband like to surprise people. I didn’t know he was planning such a surprise. After our wedding, as we were stepping out of the altar, I saw a truck decorated and parked in front of the church. He told me this is the car that would take us home. I was surprised but, all the same, I was happy because it was part of fun for me.

Memorable time with him
Every time we are together, I always feel on top of the world. I’m  happy seeing him around me. There is nothing he does that I don’t like.

His lifestyle
You know I have been with him for a long time. So, I understand his kind of person. While in the university, I did a  diploma course in theatre arts before I later switched over to political science/administrative studies. Acting is all about make-believe. As he’s acting, I’m watching him, as well as seeing the other side of him. What you see on screen is the real Victor Osuagwu. The way he behaves on set is the same way he behaves at home.






Woman pours hot oil on lover over refusal to marry her





The Senior Magistrate, Omolola Akindele, summarily sentenced Alonge without an option of fine after the convict admitted to committing the offence in court.
Alonge was arraigned by the police on a one-count charge of causing grievous hurt on Nna, her boyfriend, who lives in Kurudu, Abuja.
The Police Prosecutor, Cpl. Paschal Njoku, had earlier told the court that Nna reported the incident at Kurudu Police Station on August 11.
Njoku said Alonge went to Nna’s house at about 4:30 a.m. on the fateful day and poured hot oil on him while he was asleep, resulting in grievous hurt on his body.
He said she was immediately arrested by the police, based on the report and confession to committing the crime before the police.
Njoku said while in detention, Alonge threatened to inflict more harm on the victim.
The prosecutor urged the court to summarily punish the accused since she did not deny the charge brought against her.
In her defence, Alonge told the court that her estranged lover dated her for over four years and promised to marry her, only for him to change his mind after falling in love with another women in Abuja.
She said: “I did that to teach him a bitter lesson because he refused to marry me after dating me for over four years.
“He fooled me and my parents and ditched me after finding a new lover here in Abuja. I live in Lagos with my parents.”






OJB to leave for his kidney transplant this week

BEST OF LUCK

OJB-Jezreel-and-wife-398x600The talented music producer will be leaving for his kidney surgery in India sometime this week. He completed his dialysis at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital last week so is preparing to travel between now and end of the week.

We wish you a successful surgery.






BBA : I Fought Beverly Osu Because She Wanted More Sex – Angelo Reveals DIRTY Secrets


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Few days ago, Before he was evicted Beverly & Angelo Claim They NEVER Had Sex In The House. Now, The South African house mate who was evicted yesterday alongside Bimp.reveals their secrets.
One major highlight of his stay was sex with the Nigerian vixen Beverly, who herself has been a source of controversy. Angelo who approach 5 of the ladies in the house, said during the eviction interview that Beverly kissed him first before he kissed Beverly.
“I like Beverly because she is a strong woman and she would go for whatever she wants”. He also emphasised that his relationship with Beverly was initiated by Beverly, when asked if the relationship was initiated or induced.
Although he stated he loved Beverly. When quizzed about why they fought he said, Beverly wanted more.
“Beverly told me it has been over one week since we last did it ( referring to the sex in the bathtub) but i said NO. I promised my mother i would not do such, so i can’t do it again”.
angeloooo













After Angelo and Bimp were evicted yesterday, there remain 5 house mates including the Nigerian duo of Beverly and Melvin.






Abubakar Shekau, Boko Haram Leader 'May Be Dead'

Nigeria's militant Islamist leader Abubakar Shekau may have been killed by the security forces during a shoot-out, an army spokesman has said.

An "intelligence report" showed that Shekau, the leader of the Boko Haram group, may have died between 25 July and 3 August, Lt-Col Sagir Musa said.

Boko Haram, which has waged an insurgency in Nigeria since 2009, has not commented on the statement.

The US had put a bounty of $7m (£4.6m) on Shekau's head.

The intelligence report suggested that Shekau was shot on 30 June, when soldiers raided a Boko Haram base at Sambisa Forest in north-eastern Nigeria.

"Shekau was mortally wounded in the encounter and was sneaked into Amitchide - a border community in Cameroon for treatment... It is greatly believed that Shekau might have died between 25 July to 3 August 2013," Col Musa said.

A video of Shekau, released on 13 August, was "dramatised by an imposter to hoodwink the sect members to continue with the terrorism", he added.

On 14 August, the military said it had killed Boko Haram's second-in-command, Momodu Bama, also known by his alias "Abu Saad".

Correspondents say there is no independent confirmation of Shekau's or Bama's death.

Thousands of people have died since Boko Haram began its insurgency in 2009.

A claim in 2009 that Shekau had been killed turned out to be untrue, they add.

He became leader of Boko Haram after its founder, Muhammad Yusuf, died in police custody in the same year.

The insurgency became far more brutal under Shekau's leadership, with Boko Haram carrying out a wave of bombings and abductions, including that of foreigners, in its campaign to create an Islamic state across Nigeria, correspondents say.

In May, President Goodluck Jonathan declared an emergency in three north-eastern states, saying the group threatened Nigeria's existence. 






Don Jazzy & D’Prince Join Label Mate Tiwa Savage As MTN Ambassadors


More money for the Marvin superstars

Barely weeks after singer Tiwa Savage joined the brand as an ambassador, producer Don Jazzy and brother D’Prince have also joined MTN as ambassadors.








Hot Designers Ugonna Omeruo & Yvonne Nwosu Flaunt their Sexy Bikini Bodies


Nigerian designers Ugonna Omeruo of House of Nwocha and Yvonne Nwosu of Vonne Couture have clearly been hitting the gym recently.

On Sunday, the two stylistas decided to show-off their toned bods, while basking in the sun in stylish bikinis. See what they wore.



Ugonna Omeruo



Ugonna decided on a black cut-out monokini.



She finished the look with a black embellished alice band, dark shades, diamond stud earrings and a multi-coloured print dress which she later took off.



Yvonne Nwosu



Forget the $ 6000 bag, Yvonne needs to invest in more bikinis.



The designer rocked a print bra top and bottoms for the girls day out. Sporting no make-up, Yvonne completed her look with curly ombre locks.

 
They are hot indeed




GOOGLE: Wizkid Is THE MOST SEARCHED ENTERTAINER IN JULY


Ayo Wizkid Balogun is soaring higher as new information from Google has it that the superstar was the most searched Nigerian entertainer in July as he surpassed Mercy Johnson – Okojie, who was at the spot for two years consecutively, Tuface, D’banj, Iyanya and more.

The most sought after trending issues include ASUU strike, Ramadan, royal baby, the Travyon Martin/George Zimmerman saga and more, while the most searched sport team was Arsenal and most searched mobile device, the Nokia Lumia 1020.
See complete list below.

TOP 10 MOST SEARCHED ENTERTAINERS
  • Wizkid
    Funke Akindele
    Mercy Johnson
    Ini Edo
    Tonto Dike
    Tiwa Savage
    2Face
    Iyanya
    D’banj

    Genevieve
TOP 5 MOST SEARCHED DEVICES
  • Nokia Lumia 1020
    Samsung Galaxy Mega
    Tecno 13
    Lumia 1020
    Tecno n9
TOP 15 MOST SEARCHED TEAMS
  • Arsenal
    Chelsea
    Manchester United
    Barcelona
    Liverpool
    Real Madrid
    AC Milan
    Inter
    Bayern Munich
    Manchester City
    Everton
    Eyimba
    Sunshine Stars
    Akwa United
    Borussia Dortmund
TOP 10 TRENDING SEARCHES IN JULY
  • ASUU Strike
    Ramadan
    Kate Middleton, Royal baby
    Cory Monteith(glee)
    Zimmerman/ Travyon Martin
    Bernard(Brazilian & Atletico Madrid): rumours of Arsenal signing.







Davido Finally Shows off his Girlfriend




So yesterday Davido posted the above photo with the caption “Beach tins with ma baby and the crew!” a few days before he also posted another photo with the same girl hiding her face with the caption “Bae Bae”.



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On her birthday Davido’s older brother Adewale Adeleke tweeted at her “Happy birthday to my lil sis/ our wife @funmiaboderin?Huh? time to turn up!”

Yes o my amebo/detective skills spied all that!



Funmi is a student of University of Durham in the UK, and a huge supporter of Kids Cancer research. And she is a fine girl, Davido has great taste! But 20 year old Davido announcing to the world he has a girlfriend will not deter the groupies one bit. Microwaveable popcorn hoes will still be on the queue to tell the world about how their one night stand with Davido as well as post pictures of themselves in bed with him. 








Actor Fred Amata Breaks Up With His Single Mother Girlfriend


What's up with our dear Fred Amata? Several years after separating from his wife, Agata Amata, one would have thought he would try to make things right and bring Agata and his children back home, but that did not happen and may never happen, whisperNaija.Com observed.

Few months after he started a hot relationship with Mor Okonkwo, a single mother of two, Fred Amata has sent the bodacious lady parking, forcing her back into the single ladies club.

A source told whisperNaija.Com that Fred wants to get back with his first girlfriend:
She is now the President of Actor's Guild of Nigeria, AGN, Ibinabo Fiberesima. I hear the lady he dumped, Mor Okonkwo, has tried everything to make him take her back yet Fred refused.

But will it be right for Ibinabo to return to Fred Amata? Why not his wife, Agata?







Kaffy Dance-Queen and Hubby Expecting Baby Number Two




Energetic dance queen and choreographer, Kafayat Shafau Ameh and her husband Joseph Ameh are expecting their second baby. (It's my job to know these things... hehe). Kaffy is said to be in her second trimester and is really excited to be pregnant again. Kaffy and Joseph welcomed their first child Kamal Ameh in December 2011 and got married in June 2012.



Congrat to them.







Teenager Convicted For Sending Facebook Friend Request

There are a few people you probably shouldn't friend on Facebook, like your boss, total strangers or — as one Swedish teen recently learned — someone who has filed a restraining order against you.

According to Sweden’s The Local, an 18-year-old male recently went before a Gotland District Court judge and was convicted for sending a Facebook friend request.

The court, located on the Baltic island of Gotland, ruled that the teen’s friend request violated the restraining order the other party had previously filed against him, Sveriges Radio reports. The teen was handed a suspended sentence for his violation and fined 30 days’ pay.

However, the Facebook friend request may not have been the only factor that led the judge to convict and fine the teen.

Aside from attempting to make contact through Facebook, the 18-year-old also allegedly bumped into the person at a street market. Local reports don’t note whether the run-in was coincidental or deliberate.

While Sweden’s laws are markedly different from those in the U.S. that have led to arrests over Facebook activity, friend requests on the social media site have been a component in past cases. In 2010, a Florida man was jailed for sending a friend request to his estranged wife, thereby violating a domestic order against him.





Genevieve Nnaji Spotted Rocking ₦1.3 Million Chanel Lego Bag!


Nollywood star Genevieve Nnaji on Saturday attended the wedding of a friend in Lagos & for the occasion she rocked a short blue lace dress, which she teamed with season’s must-have item of the moment among celebrities..the lego inspired Chanel Lego Bag! The plastic bag costs a whopping £5,370, that’s $9,900, that’s 1.3 Million Naira!

Her money is definitely talking here.


Yup! It’s definitely only for the rich & fancy!



Genny is in very good company with her plastic Chanel bag which has also been spotted on Kim Kardashian, Rihanna, Rita Ora, Kim K’s mom Kris Jenner, Diane Kruger to name a few.



The IT bag was designed by Chanel’s design head Karl Lagerfeld & bears a striking resemblance to a school lunch box (Imagine your child thinking it’s a lunch box & putting their food in it though??)



It comes in green, yellow, pink, blue, black and monochrome, and has the classic Chanel double-C logo plastered on the front, so you don’t miss it. 



See Photos Of Davido & Friends As He Shoots Instructional Video Clip For Skelewu (Crazy)

This Video is going to be crazy as usual.


Skelewu is his latest song which was released few days ago. And Davido has made a video clip where he taught his fans a particular dance step to the song.



A competition will soon be on once the video clip is released to the public. The fan who gets the exact dance step will win $3,000.





Angry Ex-Wife Pays Divorce Settlement In COINS Mixed With Rice And Beans




Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned! In an amusing turn of events, an American woman who was ordered by a court to pay her ex-husband $50.12 as part of a divorce settlement sent the money to him in pennies delivered in Tupperware filled with rice and beans.

To add insult to injury, the unnamed woman wrote her husband a stinging farewell note.

‘Andy, Here’s forty seven dollars and twelve cents in pennies,’ the missive read. ‘The other three dollars paid for the containers that I used. Receipt is included if you want to return them…‘Oh! One last thing, I added beans and rice to remind you that you married a beaner : ) I hope you have a fab life! B/C I know mines 20x better without you in it!’

Photos of the coins divided into three plastic containers were posted on social media site Reddit on Tuesday by the husband, identified only as Andy from Omaha, Nebraska.

The story has stirred much interest among the users of the popular site, with many commenters siding with Andy and condemning his ex-wife’s stunt.  


Breaking News: Pastor Ajanaku Is Dead

Pastor Ireti Ajanaku of Christ Revival Church, the man who had a face-off with Tope Alabi, the popular gospel singer is said to have kicked the bucket. He reportedly died yesterday night in his sleep after a brief illness in his hometown, Gbogan.

As we speak, the father of the man of God who is very fair in complexion and the Landlord association of his community are holding a meeting on how to bury him.
His death is a shocker,because he was a very vibrant man.


Well, we are still investigating to ascertain what exactly killed him from one of the members of the church.
We shall keep you posted!

May is soul rest in Peace.







REVEALED: How Toyin Lawani Snatched Her Former BFF's Lover






Toyin Lawani and her light skinned BFF who is in the entertainment industry have parted ways and the parting was so messy that the dust it caused has refused to settle down.

The CEO of tiannah styling recently granted an interview on inspiration Fm where she mentioned that her ex was married as at the time they were dating,nice revelation only that she forgot to mention which ex it was and olofofo whisperers have decided to help her out....help her explain why she and her former friend are at war.



According to olofofos ''Toyin is celebrating now with her younger lover but stole her friends Joy and betrayed her so bad that the friend is yet to recover from the treachery.she and this particular friend were more like twin sisters and really close but alas the unthinkable happened because of Toyins greed for money!''

''The close friend was dating a man of means from the western part of Nigeria and had a daughter who was interested in fashion...that's where Toyin came into the picture..Her friend introduced her to her man so that Toyin can be of help to his daughter but she went behind and began dating the man and used malicious words to terminate her friend's relationship. she began dating the guy and was rewarded with lots of financial gifts one of which is the infinity 'jeep' she is driving around town.



The lover boy whose initials has 'Dokinta' attached to it has the other half of a name which is given to twin children at birth.lover boy is into things that have to do with shipping and has an office when you are driving through an area that sounds like 'papa' when you drop the introducing letter.

One of the points to ponder being asked by the olofofos is ''Na the younger lover be the baby daddy abi na the Dokinta?''

As you read this Toyin and her former BFF are at war and no longer speak



My mother flogged me many times for playing football- Aghahowa



Former Super Eagles and Shakhtar Donetsk striker, Julius Efosa Aghahowa, has stated that he was disciplined a great deal by his “concerned mother”, who never wanted him to play football.

According to ‘Agha Wonder’, his mother would always give him six strokes of the cane when he was young for daring to play football. But he said that none of those punishments weakened his passion for the beautiful game, as he remained adamant and continued to sneak out at every opportunity to play the game that gave him joy and fulfilment.

He, however, explained that his mother was not disciplining him for the sake of punishment, but as a caring parent, she never wanted him to sustain injuries, as she had no money to take him to the hospital if the unexpected had happened.


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