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This is a short write up on some of the mistakes men make with women and a little tip on how to make your woman love you. I hope that anybody that reads this would find this write up useful and learns from it.
This days, most men
believes that before a girl could love you, you must be rich, affluent,
wealthy, prosperous or very handsome. Well folks it doesn’t end there. I have
had various encounters with some girls that are in a relationship with rich men
and yet date an average man without the wealthy one knowing. In some cases the
girls spends some of the money she gets from the rich man on the average man.
There are some mistakes men makes when it comes to matters that concerns a
lady, this mistakes are what I’m about to share with you so that you can learn
from it.
First
mistake: Not knowing how to approach a
girl
This is one problem most guys
faces. Most times they would see a girl they really want but they lack the
courage to approach them and tell them what is on their mind. I encountered
this problem too; I remember some years back I couldn’t talk to a girl of my
choice. Immediately I am with the girl I would turn to an automatic
stammerer.lol. So as a guy you need to have the right word to tell any girl you
approaching and don’t be scared after all you are a man.
SECOND
MISTAKE: ALWAYS TRYING TO PLEASE A WOMAN
I know some ladies won’t find
this one funny. But I noticed something, when a guy starts dating or trying to
lure a pretty girl they are always doing things to please the girl. Most times
they start showering the girl with gifts which the wont be able to afford when
they start dating. They pretend like they have so much money and this makes the
girl expect too much when they start dating. They call her every hour and they
are never late for a date for a date, this is a bad move.
They do all that to make sure
the girl is always happy with them. Getting a girl angry or upset is not that
bad as it looks. As long as you are not physically harassing them or mentally
abusing them, it’s OK to upset her sometimes. Women are surprisingly attracted
to this.
Third mistake: Always wanting
to see a girl
Most guys believes that when they start dating a girl, it is very
important to always be with her
regularly to keep the love growing and hot. Well this is a wrong assumption
because regular meeting with a girl do not encourage attraction. They often see
such guy as some one that has nothing to do or has no life of his own. Women
are not attracted to men without a life his own. This is the opposite of what
the guys thinks, but its nice to give your lady space at times. This step is
not applicable to all girls though, because some girls all ways wants their men
all the time. The fact is that giving a woman space, time, leaving her to miss
you will increase attraction.
Fourth mistake: Not knowing what women likes and needs
I noticed
that one of the ways to make a lady happy is to know what she likes and needs.
This is a key in any relationship. Try your possible best to know this two
things and you would see the result.
Fifth
mistake: Quick demand for sex
Quick demand for sex is another mistake guys often make. When you make
sex your priority things easily go wrong. Sex is allowed in any relationship,
but don’t make it your target at the early stage because that is a wrong move.
Take everything slowly and focus on how to win her love and trust before
anything else.
This is where I would stop for
now, i hope it helps you. Watch out for the continuation in my other blogs that is coming
soon.
